Absolute love is a feeling that should flow from us constantly. Love, i.e. acceptance, cordiality, pleasant, positive attitude, handshake, embrace, common good, joy, happiness… A smile appears just at the thought.
Sometimes love has to be learned. Observe the surroundings, try, gently, step by step, convince yourself, investigate. Not everyone perceives love properly, not everyone accepts it. We rather leave touch for the people closest to us. Stroking is a tenderness reserved for the most trusted ones.
If you are not taught to live in love, developing the ability to express it can take many years. We use it with the most trusted people. And usually it is not us who take the first step, but rather we imitate and reciprocate when we know that we are in a safe position.
When the moment comes when our small gestures are reciprocated with warmth and are accepted with joy, something appears that is difficult to describe, it is so wonderful. I guess it’s the fullness of love. It’s a feeling as if the heart was opening, as if a glow of light was coming out of us. Something beautiful, wonderful.
I have only experienced such things now. They are a huge surprise to me. I didn’t expect such a wonderful feeling to be possible. The magic of giving. This giving is so small it seems, so delicate, and for many it is probably a standard part of life. For me it turned out to be the greatest thing I have ever experienced.
It has always been in me to reject touch. So I’ve never been a sensitive person myself. I still wouldn’t put myself in that category. However, taking the step of being able to hug someone is a game-changer for me. The joyful reception almost moved me, I felt so happy.
It’s never too late to experience. This is the so-called however, being late turns out to be the best possible moment because we are at the right stage of understanding, awareness. This experience may be more significant for us, better understood, more noticeable.
Events appear at the best times for us. For me, the moment to experience this kind of love is now. I’m grateful for that.